A Message to Fellow Women Balancing It All
Mother’s Day isn’t just about flowers and breakfast in bed (although we love those too!). It’s about honoring the strength, softness, and sheer magic that lives in women who show up for everyone—even when their own cups are barely full. Whether you're running a business, running a household, or running on coffee and prayer, I see you. I am you. And today, I want to share a little message straight from my heart to yours.
Being a boss is empowering, but let’s be honest—it’s not all glam and gloss. As a woman building brands and mentoring others, I often shift from power meetings to FaceTime calls from my daughters.
There’s this constant tug-of-war between chasing goals and chasing down snack time, and somehow, I’m always doing both—in heels, with a laptop in one hand and a prom dress in the other.
But I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’ve built a brand that empowers other women to dream big while staying true to themselves. And every deal I close, every message I share, every moment I lead—it’s not just for me, it’s for the legacy I’m creating for my daughters to see.
In one of my previous blogs, we talked about “Family First: How I Balance Being a CEO & Spending Quality Time with Loved Ones”—and while balance is always the goal, today I want to go even deeper. This Mother’s Day, I’m not just reflecting on schedules or time management. I’m talking about the heart work—what it really feels like to be a woman holding multiple identities at once: CEO, mother of college-aged daughters, wife, daughter, mentor, and dream chaser.
This post isn’t just about how we do it all—it’s about who we become in the process. Because behind the glam, the calendars, and the camera-ready moments, there’s a woman showing up day after day, often tired, sometimes doubting, but always rising.
For All the Mothers: Embracing the Shifts of Motherhood
As we wrap up another school year, this Mother’s Day is hitting me in a new way—both of my daughters are officially in college now. This chapter of motherhood feels so different. I’m not packing lunchboxes anymore—I’m giving career advice, emotional pep talks, and cheering them on from afar. They’re blossoming into powerful young women, and while I miss the days of little voices and messy mornings, I’m so proud of who they’re becoming. Watching them chase their own dreams reminds me why I’ve chased mine so hard all these years. I want them to know that they can be soft and strong, ambitious and loving—that they don’t have to choose.
They say as the years go by, it gets easier—but emotionally, it gets harder to comprehend how quickly the little moments turn into memories. One minute you're tying bows in their hair, and the next, you're having 20 minute phone calls between their classes and internships, praying they're eating something other than Starbucks and snacks. It’s a bittersweet kind of pride—the kind that fills your heart and tugs on it at the same time.
Sometimes I catch myself replaying their childhood laughs in my mind, remembering the late-night cuddles, the school plays, the endless “mom, watch this!” moments. And now, I watch them from a distance as they become everything I prayed for—confident, kind, and ready to take on the world in their own heels.
Embracing the shifts of motherhood is all about finding beauty in the transitions, even when they feel bittersweet. As our children grow, we’re often faced with moments of change that tug at our hearts—those little hands that once clung to ours are now reaching for their own independence. But the truth is, every shift is an opportunity for growth. It’s about releasing the old roles we held so tightly and making space for new ones.
That’s the beauty of motherhood—it evolves, but the love never lessens. If anything, it deepens.
And while a part of me will always be “Mom” first, I’m also learning to embrace the space that this new season brings—the room to reconnect with other parts of myself, including the role that often gets tucked behind the to-do lists: wife.
Being a wife isn’t just about date nights or anniversary posts—it’s about showing up for each other through every version of life. We’ve been through the wild toddler years, the teenage rollercoaster, and now this new season of parenting-from-a-distance. Through it all, we’ve grown with each other, not just beside each other. He’s my sounding board, my calm in the storm, and the one who reminds me that even when I’m leading in the world, I’m allowed to just be loved at home. Our relationship, like everything else in my life, has taken intention—and I’m grateful we’ve built a bond strong enough to hold all our evolving dreams.
As parents to our beautiful daughters, we now follow them—their dreams, their journey, their rise into womanhood. We cheer from the sidelines, we offer guidance when asked, and we show up with quiet strength, just like they watched us do for years. Wherever life takes them, I’ll be there—sometimes with words, sometimes with silence, but always with love. And as I hold space for their future, I hold everything we've been through in my heart: the baby giggles, the bedtime stories, the hard lessons, the small victories. It’s all there, stitched into the fabric of who I am.
For the New Mothers
I remember the first time I held my daughters in my arms. The world slowed down, and everything else faded away. It was just the two of us, navigating a new world together. Nothing could prepare me for the intensity of that love, the way it would shift everything about who I was and how I saw myself. The late nights, the endless feedings, the worry over every little milestone—it was all overwhelming, but it was also the most beautiful thing I had ever known.
If you're a new mother right now, I see you. I see the exhaustion in your eyes, the wonder in your heart, and the constant pull between wanting to savor every moment and feeling like there’s a never-ending to-do list. Motherhood is a journey like no other, full of breathtaking highs and challenging lows. Here’s what took me years to learn: it’s okay not to have it all figured out.
Self-care might feel like an afterthought in the whirlwind of new motherhood, but it’s absolutely essential. When you’re running on little sleep and constantly attending to the needs of your baby, it can be hard to remember to care for yourself. But let me tell you, nurturing your own well-being isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. Even if it’s just a quiet moment with a cup of coffee or a quick walk outside, taking time to recharge helps you show up as the best version of yourself for your child. It doesn’t have to be extravagant, but the little moments of care can make all the difference.
And as you care for yourself, don’t forget to celebrate the small milestones—because they’re the foundation of everything. That first smile, the first time your baby reaches for you, or even just surviving a long day—these tiny victories are the markers of growth, both for you and your child. In the haze of sleepless nights and the pressure to do it all, it’s easy to overlook how far you’ve come. So take a breath and savor these moments. You’re doing incredible things every single day, even when it feels like you’re not.
Patience is key. It’s easy to get caught up in what needs to be done, but remember that your child is growing, learning, and evolving with each passing day—and so are you. Don’t rush the process. There’s no timeline for how fast you should be adjusting to this new life. Be kind to yourself when things don’t go as planned. Trust that you’re doing everything you can, and it’s enough.
But above all, what matters most is being there for your child. Show up, even in the smallest ways. Your presence, your love, and your care are the most important things you can give. The bond you’re building now will carry with them for the rest of their life. And no matter what, that love will always be their anchor.
When you’re in the early days of motherhood, it can feel like a constant state of change but I want to remind you to pause. Look at the tiny hands that grasp your finger, the sleepy eyes that find comfort in your embrace. These moments? They are magic. You might feel like you’re stumbling through it all, but trust me: You are doing an amazing job. Every hug, every lullaby, every sacrifice is part of the deep, unconditional love you’re pouring into your little one.
For the Mothers Who Feel Alone: A Reminder of Your Strength
To all the mothers who feel like they’re walking this journey alone, I see you. I know how heavy the isolation can feel, especially when you're giving so much of yourself to your children, yet feeling disconnected or unsupported. Whether you’re navigating motherhood as a single parent, feeling distant from loved ones, or simply carrying the weight of the world without someone to lean on, the loneliness can be suffocating at times.
It’s okay to feel lonely even when you’re surrounded by the demands of motherhood. It doesn’t make you any less of a mother or person. The truth is, sometimes it feels like you're constantly giving without receiving, and that emotional exhaustion is real. It can leave you feeling invisible, like you’re always in the background, making sure everyone else is taken care of, with no one to look out for you.
But please hear this: You are not alone. Even in the most solitary moments, there is a community of mothers out there who are experiencing similar challenges. Sometimes it’s not about having someone physically there—it’s about knowing that there are others who understand. Your struggles, your joy, your resilience—it all matters. You don’t have to carry it all in silence. Reach out, even if it’s just to a friend, a family member, or an online support group. Ask for the help you need, and most importantly, don’t feel guilty about it.
Take a moment to be kind to yourself, to acknowledge the incredible strength you show every day. You’re doing the hardest job in the world, and it’s okay to feel like it’s overwhelming sometimes. Please, remind yourself that you’re not just a mother—you’re a woman with dreams, needs, and a heart that deserves love, too. Your love for your children is immeasurable, but so is your worth as a person.
If you’re feeling lonely today, know this: you are seen, you are heard, and most importantly, you are loved. You are enough, just as you are.
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, let’s take a moment to honor not only the beautiful women we are today but also the journeys that have brought us here through the challenges, the triumphs, the quiet moments, and the loud ones. From balancing it all to nurturing new life, embracing motherhood from a distance, or navigating the highs and lows of parenting alone, know that you are enough. Your love, strength, and resilience are felt far beyond what you can see.
To every woman reading this, I want you to remember that you are seen. You are valued. You are worthy of love and self-care, of moments of rest, and of joy. Keep shining your light, keep nurturing those around you, and don’t forget to be gentle with yourself along the way.
And always know, I’m here for you—cheering you on, supporting you, and celebrating you. Happy Mother’s Day to every woman, everywhere.
